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She's Flirting With Me, But Does She Like Me?  At school or work, put guys and girls together and what you have is a pressure cooker of nuances, double entendres, and heavy flirting.  And amongst all of this you're supposed to figure out who's telling the truth and who's pulling your chain.  It's like a giant game of Clue... now only if you had a gun.

Every freakin' day you see her. She smiles at you. She gives you a hug, talks to you a bit then makes her way to class.  She leaves you with a nice lump in your pants and a total confused look on your face.  You continue to wonder if you should just ask her out.  I mean, she hugs you, talks to you.. so she must like you, right? 

First off, all women are cunts.  Now that we have the sussed out, we can continue with the lesson...

How much does she flirt with you?  Does she pay the same amount of attention to you when she's with her friends as she does when she's by herself?

You gotta figure there needs to be some consistency.  If she treats you a 'little less' when you see her 'around' with her friends then she's just not that into you and her insecurities drives her to seek attention from anyone she knows at anytime.  So now that you see her all cozy talking with her friends, she doesn't need to validate her existence by talking you.  Basically we all want to be around people we know, so if she only 'knows' you when it's convenient for her, safe to say she doesn't like you the way you were hoping.  And in fact, you should never consider her again. 

Does she flirt with other guys?  There are chicks out there (and plenty of guys too) who simply love attention.  They run around school all day, socially whoring themselves out to whomever will accept them.  Just as she finishes hugging you, she's off to her next hapless victim.  And before you know it, the 2 of you are standing around with scratching your balls left to figure out what the hell just happened. 

Deeper meaning...Does she ask you the same stupid things everyday? Flippantly going through her laundry list of questions, or does she actually ask you more.  And moreover, does she remember to follow up the next time she sees you.  Example: She may ask about your sick grandmother.  Does she follow up in a few days by asking for a progress report, or did she completely forget that you even have a grandmother?

Duration...how long has this flirting been going on?  Is she your childhood friend and for the last 10 years you've been flirting?  Or has she just picked up on your existence and is now playing with you? 

There's a lot to digest, that's why it's important to have patience.  Our ego makes us think that we are special, and foolishness makes us think that we are the only ones.

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