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Loved Her, Lost Her, Want Her Back...

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Alright I've been married for the last couple of years and when we first got together it was that whole mini me thing of you complete me type stuff. As the years went on and we had a kid we started to close off to each other. Now were apart neither one of us loves the other. Atleast at first I didn't, but we started to hang out as friends and as lame as this makes me feel I'm falling back in love with her. I want her back but only if she wants to come. She's scared of what will happen if we get back together and doesnt want to fall in love right now. So whats up what should I do? She's scared of what will happen.. like what? her baby growing up with a daddy??    First off, good for you when you say, 'but only if she wants to come' because quite frankly, you have no choice in the matter.  It's great the 2 of you are hanging out again, just take it real slow and make sure you don't hurt yourself, don't fall too quickly.  The most important thing here is your kid.  No matter what you 2 decide to do, you have to remain friends or at least civil with each other for the kid's sake.  Your feelings are no longer your priority.    Give her her space.  The last thing you want to do is freak her out, then you'll never get to see your kid and it'll just get ugly.  The best thing you can do is be an awesome father, this way, you'll always get to be a part of both of their lives.  Also, don't get hung up in your feelings about wanting her, think about what is best for you - you don't want to get hurt again.. so you owe it to yourself to take time.  Nobody is going anywhere, so be patient and follow her lead.  Just let her know that you will be there to follow.  Let her know that you'll be her rock.  And hopefully in time, she'll understand.    It's phucked, I know, but what else can you really do?  Call her everyday?  Follow her, show up at her work with flowers... If you think about it, there is only one thing you can do...and that is to be patient.  But don't sit around and 'wait' do things that will help improve who you are - whatever that may be.    Good luck.   SM Read more male dating advice Comments There are no comments on this item. Name Email Comment