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What's Up Dilan,

Thanx for your email. It's bothering you...? Well my man, get used to it. Get used to a lifetime of bothersome and wonderful frustrations. As far as your situation goes, you're sittin' pretty; she's given you the green the light, only now you have to make her feel comfortable. Seeing as how you are not at the drinking age, and you can't cram a bottle of Goldshlagger down her throat, you're just gonna have to give it time. Giggling? Try taking off the Clown's nose. But really, that's normal at her age. She's nervous, and any pressure she feels from you won't help. Ultimately the decision is hers, as with everything. It's always 'her' decision, at her pace.

So yeah, lay off and see what happens. I know this makes no sense now, but somehow try and remember this: slow down. The end isn't as fun as the start. Enjoy this time now - because you're soon going to be a crusty old man, wishing he could still make all them little girls giggle.

Make it seem like that's not the only thing you want. I know it's impossible, but you need to practice your poker face. Stay cool and she'll come around.

Wait for the right time and place, she'll let you know and then you'll be happy you waited.

Oh and make sure to clean and cut your finger nails. Learn good hygene and keep yourself clean at all times, because you'll never know... when that 'call' comes in.. you have to be ready!!

Hope this helps.

SM