Fellas, if the girl you like is working at a Starbucks or similar, don't hang around. Don't linger by the bar waiting for her to finish helping a customer, don't lean by the cash watching her... Just don't go.

Don't visit her at work. By hanging around, you make her feel rushed. Rushed, or embarrassed that she is working at Starbucks...either way, avoid putting her and yourself in the awkward, "can I have another latte please..." situation.

If seeing her at Starbucks is the only time you get to see her, then the pressure is really on. 'Cause you know 9 guys earlier that day made the same dumb joke about "too much foam" on their Cappuccino or some other lame ass attempt...

Don't ever ask them out while it's busy. Although this seems obvious, guys have a tendency of blowing their nut too early. So wait until the place is quite and she doesn't have much to do. Strike up a conversation while she is cleaning tables or whatever and then suggest that the two of you...get a coffee??? no you idiot. Suggest the two of you "do something when she has the time"

Always be general when first asking a girl out...then gage her answer. By asking in a casual way "Hey, wanna do something" you are not held to anything and it's non offensive. If she responds in a positive way like, "what did you have in mind?" then you can be more specific. If she ignores you, that's your answer.

Save yourself form embarrassment and don't ask her again. Unless of course she didn't hear you...then you have to ask, "did she really not hear me..?" It's all a game. In fact don't use any of this advice...