January 17th 2005

Try as we might, men simply have no control in picking their mate. They have control in not picking thier mate... but when it comes to who picked whom, make no mistake, women are the hunters.

Men spend millions and millions of dollars a year thinking we are helping 'our game.' Sure there are things we can do, like shave and shower.. maybe wear an ironed shirt but that's pretty much all we can do. The rest is in their hands, hopefully...

Guys, let's face it, we're slow. It's no secret. We're slow and obvious. We may think that we saw her first... no, no, no... she saw you the second you walked in the door. While you were making sure that your sleeves were rolled up she was already figuring out how she's going to get you to come over. and talk to her.

It's been said before, like in a job interview, a woman will know if she wants you (or doesn't) within the first 5 minutes. All you have to do is play it cool. Answer the questions, make nice and you're in. She'll decide how far you get in the first night and she'll decide if she wants to see you again. So guys, stop spending all your cash and your hopes thinking you're in charge. Instead spend your time in listening to her and spend it wisely.