When you're young and you first realize that you like girls, it's like a novelty.  Everytime you see one you giggle, or blush...you really don't know what to do.  Sadly, more often than not, those reactions stick with us (some of us) as we get older.  You're at the bar with your buddy, a hot chick walks in, or sits next to you...you get all giggity-giggity.  You slap him on the arm and point in her direction and start whispering (While looking at her) to him.  It's like you and your friend are retarded.  Pointing, drooling all over yourselves.

If you go out with the guys, chances are you're going to run into some tender meat.  When you do, all of you are going to be thinking the EXACT same thing so there's no reason to make yourself obvious by beating your chest.  It should be understood.  Sure, you can talk about it afterwards, but practice some discretion.  Chicks do.  When they spy a hot guy, they don't get all foamed up.  Not externally anyway. 

A chick already knows you're going to be checking her out. It's what we do, it's who we are.  So when you do spot that honey, don't try to stuff your hand in the hive.  Give it a quick once over and store it for later. 

And if your friends are too slow to spot her before she walks away, their loss.  Besides you can bet they've been keeping some of honey for themselves.