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What To Do About Low Self Esteem

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natureofproject: This is about a guy i like please help me if you can. So here it goes: My friends told him i liked him this is true. He does not like me though. Now if i try to talk to him online hes ends up saying he has to leave or he will say be right back then never says anything back later. I would really like to go out with this person. My cousin told me to not pay so much attention to him how they hate to be ignored. I find this hard because i dont think he would realize im ignoring him because he basically ignors me. Please help me with this. I have to sit one seat away from them in one of my Highschool classes and it is unbearible please please help. Thank you hope to hear from you soon!


SM: Well what you could do is offer yourself up to him. Like Jessica Lang in King Kong - you could be offered up as a sacrifice. Or, you can pay him. I just saw this movie over the weekend, 'Love Don't Cost a Thing' where this loser guy pays some popular chick to pretend to go out with him... it works!!! he becomes the most popular kid in school.

So - either pony up some cash, or lay naked on his desk - those are pretty much the only 2 ways he's going to notice you. And by 'he'll notice you' I don't mean, 'He'll like you'.

Of course you could always try a little self respect, with a dose of self esteem. This guy is IGNORING you. He's not playing a game, he's not being coy, he just doesn't like you 'that way' so why, why would you continue to go after him?

There are only 2 reasons why - you're an idiot or, you're an idiot. We always want the things we can't have - but draw the line when your dignity becomes involved. Here's the thing - you're young - if you start to develop these dependency habits now, you'll end up marrying some guy who abuses you and cheats on you. Don't be drawn to guys who ignore you. You may find them intriguing, mysterious.. whatever - but if they don't treat you the way you should be treated, then walk on.

So my advice to you, find another guy to like. It's high school, you'll end up liking 10 - 20 different guys before you graduate. As far as sitting next to him in one of your classes, see if you can change seats, if not - take this opportunity to fight any feelings you have for a guy that simply ignores you. You're better than that. But not if you don't listen to this advice.

 

 

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