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The right time? When you are ready to accept rejection. Girls make up this huge ordeal about having sex for the first time... All the movies, all the magazines.. do nothing but sell us this idea of romance. We of course buy into it and we think we fall in love.

Your boyfriend will make you feel special, he'll tell you he loves you blah blah... he'll make you feel as special as you want to feel, you fall for it. You give him your virginity because "he's the one"

Now guys just simply aren't like this. They don't wait for that someone special... they just wait for that someone who'll oblige them. After he has had sex with you, he may begin to lose interest. And THAT is where women/girls get hurt. No book, no friend ever warns a woman of what happens after you gave him your cherry.

When is the right time to have sex? When you are strong enough to face the fact that "the first time" doesn't consist of candles, roses, moonlight... it generally consists of your parents car, your basement or a friends house while their parents are gone... it also may involve some physical pain for the girl.

Of course this is the worst case scenario, but also the most common. If the guy you like is really "that special" then he'll never pressure you or coax you into anything that makes you feel uncomfortable. Unfortunately pre-pubescent guys aren't that patient, so you may have to be.

One more thing - make sure the Dick covers up. Always, always, always use a rubber - If he doesn't have one, make sure you do. No excuses.

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