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Dating Advice - Females

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natureofproject: Okay. Fist, let me just say the advice you give here is actually pretty worth while. Bravo. So heres my story:

I'm in college and I met this guy a few days before winter break, in fact we got coffee the day before us students were forced to leave. Now I know this is stupid and completely high school of me, but he seemed interested when we were together, but later when I messaged him on facebook (after him sending me a response to one I sent him), he never responded. Now ifs fine with me if he's not interested (I'm a big girl now, I can deal) but its been a three week break, two since we've talked, and now I have no clue what to do next. My plan was to just go up to him and tell him I like him. Does that sound like a good idea, or should I just wait? Plus does the message thing mean anything? Thanks :)

I'm probably way late... but Nooooooooo, it sound like a horrible idea, and you already know that. Under no circumstances are you to go up to him and tell him anything of the sort. Got it?! If he likes you, he'll text you. If you make yourself too available he won't be interested. So say nothing, don't text him, don't talk to him... unless of course you already have, then it's too late. So what you do next is, NOTHING. Build yourself another dramatic situation to take your mind away from him. I've recently found that unless I think keep thinking about this one girl, I have nothing else to think about. So I'm keeping busy and kind of hoping for some other distraction to come around. Something that forces me to take my mind off the situation. But careful what you wish for.

If he's not texting you, he's not into you. The 'text' is one of the better relationship inventions. It allows you to communicate without the commitment. So if he's not even doing that, then he's really not thinking about you. Or maybe he is, but he's confused about his feelings... then that would make him gay - so he's definitely not interested.

But seriously, walk on. It's the best thing you can do for yourself.