I'm an all around good girl. I don't lie to my parents. I don't really misbehave. My average in school is 103. I've never really had any interests toward boys, until my junior year. The guy's name Mark and I've known him since freshmen year. He gets by in the institute with 85s and 90s but a lot of the time, he's a troublemaker and kind of like a player. He actually came to class with a hickey on his neck.

I liked him but he found out and he asked me out but I said no because my parents doesn't allow me to date until I'm out of high school. Now he asked me out again and said that he did a lot just to impress me, like getting 101 average, taking up music, joining sports teams and club. I didn't know that he liked me back that much. I want to say yes so bad but I can't lie to my parents and date him behind their backs. And they won't let me date him either. What should I do?

Hey, Thanx for your email.  It's 'natural' for us to not listen to our parents.  We somehow think we know more or we know better than them, and the truth it, we don't.  Whatever you do, don't start lying to your parents.  Lie to anyone else, the cops, or friends. But don't get into the habit of lying to your parents; it'll get you nowhere. 

As for this guy, Mark.  He doesn't like you.. he only wants you because he can't have you.  The minute he finally does get you, he's not going to want you.  He's a player, so don't become part of his game.  You'll hate yourself for it.  If you date him behind your parents back, they're going to find out and everything you've worked so hard to gain (respect, trust) will be gone.  It’s just not worth it.  You may think you like this guy (Mark) but that's because he's a 'bad' boy' and your parents don't want you to date.  Learn how to deal with not getting what you want; it'll only help you in the end. 

Of course you can ask your parents if you can bring him over to your house so they can talk to him and see what he is like.  Maybe show your parents that you are responsible enough to date someone.  But if they don't like him as a person, and you're living under their roof, you have to listen to what they say.  They know better.  Totally sucks to hear, but just go with me on this one.