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natureofproject: i like this guy and weve held hands and watched movies together, we talk online all the time and alot of my friends said he liked me so after a while when i asked him if he liked me he said idk but im not really looking for a girlfriend right now. i felt so stupid but i really like this guy but i dont know what to do about it? what can i or should i do? PLZ help me im clueless!

First off - don't feel stupid. Don't ever let anyone tell you, you are stupid. That's the first thing you must do. The second thing is, don't worry about it so much. He's either telling you 'he doesn't want a girlfriend' because he doesn't like you and doesn't want to hurt your feelings OR, he really doesn't want a girlfriend. So the best thing you can do about it, it to be patient.

Don't ask him again, don't tell him again - in fact, just ignore him. If you don't you'll find yourself thinking about him way too much which might lead you to do something stupid. If you did it once, you're not stupid - if you do it twice, you're stupid. So there's not much you can do at this point. You told him how you felt, he was nice enough to give you an answer - so you can't press the issue anymore. Play it cool - if you do, he may just come around. Good luck.

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