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Email: i like this guy alot. but i did some stupid things and he knows about it. he has asked me about doing stuff with him. but i dont know if he is just tring to embarass me or if he likes me. im afraid that if i say something that it may trun out to be a way to tease me. can you give me some advice. thanks for ur time

SM: what kind of stuff is asking about doing? if you mean he's asked you to make out with him - tell him to go to hell. if a guy likes you, he's not just going to ask you to 'do stuff with him' and, what 'stupid' things did you do?

Email: i got drunk one night and then i flashed some of his friends and gave two guys head and one guy a hand job. the the guy i like keeps asking me if i would give him head. he also has asked me if i would go out to a party with him but i am not sure if its just a joke or if he is serous.

SM: what the phuck are you doing being a little tramp like that? he doesn't like you - he's just hoping that you'll put out - so he can laugh at you with his friends...

listen. you're not making any friends by acting like a whore. you may think you are, but please trust me - no guy will ever really like you if you keep on going around sucking everyone off.

my advice, stay away from him and his friends. they're going to keep on using your body as a toilet until there's nothing left of you or your dignity. come on, grow up.

Email: and how would u know. r u a guy? i have never really had a guy like me or even notice me but since i did the other stuff i have had alot of guys talk to me. i have even been asked out but i dont like him. i am not pretty or skinny enough to get a boyfriend so what should i do? can u answear that????

SM: what should you do? be patient. please!! guys will only pretend to like you if they know that you are willing to put out. they will all use you. you'll go around thinking that everyone likes you but secretly they are laughing at you and calling you a 'whore.'

how do you know you've never had a guy like you or notice you? Maybe they've just never come up and told you. don't assume that you've never had a guy like you. and most importantly, don't assume that by giving blow jobs and hand jobs you'll become more popular.

i'm so very sorry that you don't feel pretty enough or skinny enough - but believe me, there is a guy out there who does. a guy who's ready to accept you for who you are. stop believing all the shit you see on TV or read in magazines.. don't believe the hype!!! and if guys at your school are only interested in you because of the sexual things you are willing to do, - phuck 'em. Not literally of course.

all the little boys at your school are losers. they walk around with hard on's all day long - they have no brains. okay! you have to find another way to get boys to like you. are you listening to me? try other things - be funny, be kind, be helpful - but DON'T BE A WHORE. I swear to you, you'll be a much better person for it.

In fact, do me a favor, print out this email and put it somewhere safe. In 5 years, read it again and you'll see that what I'm saying makes perfect sense. don't blame yourself, you are only 14 and try as you might, you can't fully comprehend everything i'm saying. i'm not trying to insult you here - it's just the truth. so, what you must do is find someone older than you that you can trust 100% - when you find that person, you must listen to their advice because they are only trying to help you.

Email: im not 14!!!!! i'll be 18 in six monthes so does that change ur advice for me now that u know my age.

SM: yes and no. you should by now know at your age - that being a little whore is not the way to get guys to like you. you are still very young and you will ruin your self esteem if you let guys use you. you have a great long life ahead of you, there's a guy out there who'll treat you with the respect you deserve. just be yourself.

Email: okay maybe ur right but im tired of not having a boyfriend and i am still a virgin so i am not a whore.

SM: being a virgin has nothing to do with 'acting' like a whore. i'm sorry you're tired of not having a boyfriend - but think of the alternative - you'll be more tired finding out that all the guys are using you...

so at you'll be tired and have your dignity. boyfriend's aren't all they are cracked up to be anyway.

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