I'm ready to be cut down again.  So basically... i met this dood. He was great. i felt so comfortable around him and we had tons in common.. i guess. We acted the same way towards each other in a way we were both flirty and romantic to each other. so this went on for a couple of weeks. Then one day he goes.. "i wanna make this clear before we hang out again.. i DONT think i want to be in a relationship." we had plans to chill 2 days later. so what the fuck?

so i basically said.. you dont even wanna hang out now do you? he didnt. why couldnt he just say so? how could he have gone to being completely cool with me and all that kissy bull shit.. to wanting nothing to do with me? Why did he wait so long and waste soooo much time to tell me now...he said it didnt have anything to do with me and that he cared about my feelings and blah blah blah..HORSE SHIT...He also said that maybe hes just tweakin and probably thinks too much. that isnt the first time i agreed with thinking too much.. People should go with the flow more often.. seems to me that maybe shit would have worked out better.

but anyway. i feel used and now useless. he shit on my feelings and my heart.. we dont talk anymore thats the gist of it.

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Ahhh poor baby.  I wanted to wait a few days to respond so as to give you time to pick up your spine and to stop feeling sorry for yourself.  You're taking this game a little too seriously.  You are right about one thing, it is horse shit.  And whilst he tells you he cares for your feelings, he really only cares about the feeling in his pants.  So if anything, you should be happy he 'dumped' you before you 'gave it up'.  Let's face it, he was going to dump you anyway.  Why, because guys are pretty much assholes who only want to get laid.  Shock, I know.  Unless of course you did give it up, which would explain why he no longer wants to hang with you.  Confusing?  Welcome to the wonderful world of dating. 

He didn't tell you sooner, because he wanted to wait until the last possible moment, to cover all bases.  Most importantly, you should be happy he told you he doesn't want to be in a relationship.  He shouldn't be in a relationship, and nor should you.  You shouldn't think about relationships until you're at least 25. Enjoy your school years.  Don't listen to what anyone tells you, except for your parents.  They're the only ones who really care about your feelings.

Now go out there and shit on a few hearts...