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ok my best friend lives by this guy. he is super hot and i think i my like him. he has been sending me mixed signals like he 's been asking me to make out with him - and i've wanted to but i 'm scared -what if i mess up - that would be so___ embarassing.

well then the 2nd time i went over we played truth or dare and i was dared to kiss him i said yes , he said no - well the next time i came he was all like i was just kidding 'bout not kissing you and i was like so was i and he goes sure you were then i told him how my best friend asked me if i would ever give him a bj and how i said yes . then he was all like really and asked me if i would then -i said no -he asked y - truefully i really didn't know i mean i wanted to and everything but i didn't i am scared that i will screw up what do i do ? and his b- day is coming up what do i do ? i want to give him something but i don't want to make it too obvious that i worsip the grounds he walks on so what do i do ?

i just know i want to do stuff with him and i don;t really know what my limits should be. and about him asking me to make out with him - that made me feel good - i maen he's hot - i'm ugly and that's that. so i guess i just got rushed into it. another bad thing is this is my ex's best friend and i figure i could get back at him ( my ex ) by doing this to him

SM's Advice: First off, it's normal to be nervous about kissing a guy for the first time or engaging in any kind of sex. Second of all, what the phuck are you doing even thinking about giving this guy a blow job?  For my birthday, I got a card!!!  Dude, that's really gross that you're thinking about doing that. Do yourself a really BIG favor - and wait! Wait until you don't feel as nervous. Most importantly wait for the right guy. Not some asshole who's actually asking you to 'make out with him' what the phuck, is he 13? Oh wait, he is.

This is what is going to happen - if you do decide to give him a bj, then once it's over he'll never talk to you again. Then you'll be more embarrassed. You'll gain a reputation as a whore and everyone is going to be talking about you. I guarantee it. You have no clue what you're in store for. So for the love of God, don't listen to your friends - don't be pressured and most importantly stay away from boys until you are 14. And even then, stay away from them. If you're ready to have dirty rumors spread about you, if you're ready to be used - then ya, go for it. But why? Rumors will be spread about you anyway, so it's better to at least keep them that way 'rumors.' Got it?! I'm not your mom or dad or even your high school councilor - I'm not even pretending to care about you - which is why you must listen to this advice.

When you find a guy that likes you as much as you like him - then you'll both be nervous about phucking up, so please wait.

Don't bother trying to get back at your ex. the best revenge is just leaving him alone. Your second problem is you have no confidence - you think you're ugly. Let me tell you something, if you're going to give this guy oral, you're going to end up having less confidence in yourself. And finally you last problem, don't worship the ground this guy walks on. He shits and picks his nose like everyone else. Don't ever give someone more attention than they deserve.

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