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Having Sex For The First Time: He Took My Virginity

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natureofproject: Listen up! I have a very, very important question! Okay about two weeks ago I went to my friend's house to drink and just have fun with him and my best friend, which i did. I admit i drank a little too much, but I made every decision with thinking of the conquences. I liked this guy (Tim) a lot and he liked me too.

Later that night he took my virginity and we started going out the next day. I thought he cared about me and he acted like it, the same night we starte going out he broke up with me.

The reason, he doesnt know and he feels stupid for his decision, but after he broke up with me he started going back out wit his ex girlfriend who is one of my old good friend. I asked him why and he said he doesnt know why he went back out with her because shes prude and he even said they have nothing in common, but now everytime im hanging with him he flirts with me and makes little comments like I want you again and shit like that.

It pisses me off because he knows he hurt me badly and now hes trying so hard to get with me while hes going out with my old friend, which i could careless. Im so tempted to get with him again and i dont know why. I think I still want him, no I know i still want him but I also want to get him back for what he did to me and so far I've just been sarcastic alot and sometimes I'll be bitchy, but other times i will just talk to him and I like that but i dont want him to think I like him again.

I feel like im the weak one if i get with him again and then hell think he could just have me whenever. ive gone through this shit before so i dont want it to happen again. I really need some advice on what to do and fast because i see him everyday and i cant take it anymore. I might just fuck him again. Hed like that but id proble kill myself for doing that again. I REALLY REALLY need your help damn it!!?!?!?!?!?!?!


SM's Response: Holy shit - this email comes from a girl who is allegedly 14-17 years old. Well.. needless to say, you have your priorities all phucked up. You don't have sex with a guy THEN start going out with him.

The reason he dumped you is because he conquered you. The reason he is back with his ex is because he has yet to conquer her.

Do yourself the biggest favor - don't ever speak to this asshole again. Get on with your life. Don't talk to him, don't be sarcastic with him, mean to him, nice to him - be NOTHING to him. Forget about getting back at him - get back at him by moving on.

Don't develop this weird pattern and don't let another guy inside you until after you've been dating for at least 2 months. You wanted my advice - there it is.

Keep your dignity. This guy is playing you. He wants what he can't have and when he gets it, he throws it away. Don't be treated like that. If you go back with him, you're a chump and a loser and I hope he does it to you again and again because you're obviously too stupid to listen. Good Luck. Oh, and Merry Christmas...

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