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Are All Guys The Same?

natureofproject: Can I have your opinion on something? Do you think that all man are the same and dont really enjoy the simple joy.. of holding the hand of a girl..or sitting next to her while they chat... or tell jokes to each other. I mean, I think that sex, is of course something fun..but besides that..Do guys really care about the communication..and about being able to be with just one girl, and love her?

SM: no, i don't think all men are the same. i do however think all boys between 18-24 are. we know that men and women are different. we operate and view the world in completely different ways - given that, women's simple pleasures are a lot different than men's. so from there we can narrow it way down to, most men are all the same. when you throw their age into the mix, it becomes more obvious. at 18, a guy and even a girl for that matter haven't matured enough to understand the deeper feeling and connection of holding hands or laying around laughing. he tries, but like a 3 year old, the brain isn't fully developed. as we get older, we start to understand the deeper meaning behind the simple pleasures, but again at 18, how deep can you expect to be? and how deep do you wanna be?

i was just telling a buddy the other day that i'm so happy i was a stupid, ignorant boy when i was 18. it would suck knowing now what i didn't know then. there's plenty of time to be mature and responsible, enjoy your early 20's while you can. of course, the other unfortunate thing is, women mature faster than guys; so if you're a 23 girl, good luck finding a 23 year old guy who enjoys the same simple pleasures as you do. i'm 35 - a simple pleasure for me at this point is certainly finding someone totally chill - but at 18 - 'chill' was a girl who took her top off before she even knew my last name.

you certainly can find that rare 23 year old guy who loves the pleasures of simply holding hands - but you'd first have to attend bible camp with him...

sucks, but true.

good luck.

SM

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