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And with that, you lose it!

"But I am only asking as friends, I don't care if you have a boyfriend."

Girls, you have every right to tell him up front; no matter how he tries to justify his rejection. He wants sex. That's it.

How many times have we heard this? We ask out a girl out she says, "yes" then proceeds to tell you she has a boyfriend.

So, you get your back up and in defense say, "Oh, but I just want to be friends..." Then you go one step further, "Why do you assume that just because I'm asking you out it means I want to date you?"

Why assume? Because you're a guy. There is no reason ever a man will ask a woman to go out with him (alone) as friends only. Unless he's gay.

Ladies, you have every reason to be up front with a guy. Lay it on the line. Let us down gently. Don't believe us when we say, "but I only want to be friends" we are lying. We are lying because we've just been rejected and we have nowhere else to turn.

I used to always get upset at a girl after she rejected me with "I have a boyfriend." How dare she assume that I'm asking her out to get in her pants...

Well, now into my 30's and I still have no intention of going out with girls as friends, so imagine at 16 when there's really nothing to say or talk about.

Girls don't ever feel bad about assuming what a guy wants. It's probably the only time you can without making an ass of yourself.

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