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I know it's a big shock, because I'm such a wonderful guy... Maybe she wasn't my girlfriend, maybe she was just a girl I was seeing, or a girl I was dating... with all these definitions kids are throwing around these days, it's tough to keep up. Regardless, or irregardless as some people insist on saying, the title or how many times in a week you see a person does not define whether or not you can see other people, it's not letting the other person know before you go out on a date - that's what defines 'cheating' At least tell me what the hell is wrong... I'll give anything you want, 100 dollar bills...

As we know where there is smoke, there is fire - where there is one date, comes a second. It's been made clear that I'm not the most motivated person in the world, I don't go out much and if I do, I enjoy more quiet surroundings. Coffee shop, the beach, a hike etc. So I can completely understand why a girl would get bored of me, nobody's fault but mine. But in the end, I typically don't go out on dates with other people... (referring back the 'not going out' part) and even if I did, liking people, finding ones that don't annoy you is pretty tough in itself, so why try; especially if you find someone you simply adore.

The relatonship was far from perfect, but we were making grounds. And by 'grounds' I mean, I was trying harder and making more of an effort to do things and open up. Concerts, movies, beach, flea markets...and other such romantic getaways. But then she kept working, nights, weekends so my plans over the last month of going to the beach and such were put on hold; no problem, means I get to lay on the couch more... but hey, I offered.

The the Spidey senses started tingling. You know the ones that tell you, you are being phucked over... When a girl doesn't mention a person's name in a conversation, you know it's 'another guy'. But don't say anything. See what happens over the course of the next few days...she's busier, working more... Then simply call her on it, ask her. Of course it's always tough to hear the truth but nothing compared to finding out weeks and months later... when all the boys at the bar begin to sing along.. if you be my dixie chicken, i'll be your tennesee lamb...

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