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What to say on a first date: Anything but, Do you like me? Can I kiss You? Can I see you again? The date is not even over and you are all over her with your pathetic, insecure questions. There is no bigger turn off than insecurity.

At this point, the only thing she knows is, you're creeping her out. The school year has just begun so, settle down and compose yourself, don't blow it all in the first semester.

I used to think I had to ask a girl out right away. 10 minutes of talking with her... "So you wanna go out..."

Example: If I just started working somewhere and I spotted a hot chick... I would usually ask her out within the first three days...

What I always failed to realize was, I had just started working there and I had better make sure not to, "use up all the goods in the first month." But sure enough, after the first 6 months I had asked out every girl and no one wanted anything to do with me. So make sure to spread them out over the year...

This kind of impatience is indicative of how you act on a date. It's as if you think she is moving out of town, or that she won't like you after tomorrow... it's as if to say, "she won't like me after she get's to know me."

So if you have something to hide, then yes, pour it on thick get in her pants and move on. But if you are a decent human being then, take your time. Graze a little here and there and you'll realize there really is no rush.

You can rush in fast, scare the heard and make off with one of the weak ones.... OR, you can move in slowly and have them all before they even knew you were there.

Don't trash people behind their back. She might start to wonder what you say behind her's or worse yet, you may end up trashing someone she knows.

What To Say On A First Date

Ask her questions. Become interested in what she has to say. Yes it's crap, but be a gentleman a listen for once. And remember, she's not going anywhere. You'll see her tomorrow, so save your good stuff and don't ask her insecure questions.

Okay now? What about now.. do you like me now?

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