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Being a hopeless romantic and single after 13 years, I’m finding it hard to date more than one guy at a time. So many of friends and co-works say, "If I was single again, I’d have one guy for this, one guy for that and a few on the side." While this ‘sounds’ awesome, finding the time and energy to actually do this it is draining emotionally and physically.

If we are always mentally ‘browsing’ how will we ever get to know someone? You don’t so by not being honest with yourself and the people you date you’re just going to hurt their feelings in the long run.

Here’s one of my biggest problems, I’m picky. No I’m REALY picky. It’s funny, people who try to set me up always ask, "What are you looking for?" And I answer with, "I don’t know… but I know what I don’t want." "Isn’t that half the battle" "I mean if you know what you don’t want… then the process of elimination makes it easy to figure out what you do want." Well that may only make sense in chick talk….but you get what I’m saying.

So here’s the break down of how to get into Horny Princess’ pants: After he meets the criteria of non-smoker, non-drinker, doesn’t gamble or do drugs… He must have a good head on his shoulders, be smart, funny, sweet, thoughtful and caring. As if that wasn’t enough…… I have to be attracted to him also. Most importantly he’s gotta have the touch, you know the one that makes you weak in the knees… makes you forget where you are and who you are when he’s kissing, touching, rubbing… ummmmm wait where was I again….. oh yea….. He also has to know what the hell he’s doing between the sheets or on top of them whichever it happens to be when you land on the bed, floor, counter top, shower, car, etc.

Foreplay tip: Knowing how to touch a clitoris takes skill. Some guys seem to think the clit is like an elevator button….. the harder and faster they push the sooner you or it will come… mmmm lets see does the elevator come any faster? NOT!

Now that you have some insight on what I’m looking for you can imagine how awesome it feels to find such a rare gem….. I know I know I’ve made comments about a few other guys I’ve dated and how they too made me weak in the knees but it turns out it was just weak in the groin……Yes, women have those too, lol.

Which leads me to the point of this story and the rare Gem: I’ve been dating this guy for a few months and things are getting a little serious, I mean we talk all the time, he calls when he says he’s going to call 99.9% of the time anyway. I’ve caught him referring to me as his girlfriend, twice. He’s introduced me to some co-workers, one of his sisters and we went on a double date with his cousin and his cousins’ girlfriend.
Well, as a chick, I’m thinking this is a pretty big deal for him to introduce me to his friends / family. I mean after all it’s easier to make a ‘fuck buddy’ disappear from your life than it is to make a ‘friend’ you’ve introduced to a few friends and some family, right? But then again, this guy hasn’t actually introduced me as his ‘girl-friend’.

So being ‘just a friend’ I feel like the carpet is about to be pulled out from under my feet and I’m left to wonder, why do I feel incredibly happy one moment and unbelievably sad the next? I hate dating, but I love getting know someone, I hate the downs of uncertainty but love the highs.

The thing is I’m so afraid of fucking something up by acting like a stupid chick, that I’m acting like a stupid chick! But for some odd reason I haven’t scared him away yet…. and believe me I’ve shown a few scary faces. I’m domed…. Headed for heart-break hotel…. where misery loves company and there is always a vacancy.

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